There is such a phenomenon, many after 90 girls in the first called aunt, the first reaction is "I'm old", not "I mature."".
Because Chinese women are afraid of old age! Why? Because when a woman is old, she is considered worthless! As if from ancient times, after 30 years of age, the value of women and age is bound to be inversely proportional relationship.
In most men's eyes, young and beautiful are always the first condition of a woman's value.
Many girls are so dependent on men that they lose their way in the male's eyes, forget their recognition and appreciation of themselves, and forget that women's growth is always more important than age.
How do most women define "old"? "30 years of age" seems to be the dividing line that divides young girls and old women into two camps.
As if 30 years old after the woman does not deserve the hot love and complete marriage. Their life should be all Qiuwen, not qualified to pursue the so-called poetry with distance, but did not need to talk about what the dream. It seems as if their duty is to take good care of their husbands, children and families. (just plain.)
Once, passing a convenience store near a university, a girl cried and roared at a boy. "What do you have to do with that 90 year old woman? Why does she always call you?"!" In the eyes of the young girl, "old woman" should be the most angry evaluation of the rival! What's more, it's 90 years old.
You see, even some young girls refer to the boundaries of "old women" at the age of 26!
Once in a variety show, the host asked Carina Lau, "which part of your life do you enjoy most?"
She lowered her head and thought for a moment, firmly said: I most enjoy now, this is my best time. Because I have never been so confident, stretch and admire myself. So my best time is not 20 years old, not 30 years old, but now.
Some comments about the age of women say so:
A woman begins to go downhill at the age of 25;
A woman who is a better woman is not married at the age of 30. It is not you who pick someone else, but someone who chooses you;
35 years old is not pregnant, this life is not born;
Women 40 bean curd residue;
A divorced 50 year old woman can only find a 70 year old man;
The only destination for a 60 year old woman is square dancing and grandchildren.
In the trend of the times, almost every woman who wanted to break the "universal values" to pursue higher values was not popular with those around us at that time. Because she broke, will make too many people see their vulgar and lazy.
Only those vulgar and lazy people do not want you to create a higher value for women, do not want them to be left behind, to become a man in the eyes of no valuable woman. And lazy, then let them can't do anything, so, of course, for fear of their own team enough to grow, fear no one accompany with him behind.
You must remember the special gymnast at the Rio olympics. She is in the 7 consecutive Olympic Games, the 41 year old with an average age of 20 expeditions in the gymnastics arena Chusovitina, when she first took the gold medal in the Olympic Games, she now rivals most are not yet born.
Now 20 years later, she is no longer young and the little girl, but a kind-hearted mother. Faced with her young opponent, she confidently said, "I don't think I'm old. I always feel like I'm still eighteen.". Young opponents don't give me pressure, they have pressure, because I have experience."
Such a woman, you can say that she is old? A woman who does not give up her dream and is not limited to time is always full of confidence!
So the woman old and decadent never has nothing to do with age, the aging of a woman is not from the beginning of the first line, not from the first white hair, but from the moment to give up their own. And giving up on yourself, from your underwear, can be seen. All clothes, dedicated to underwear, never give up any woman.
Treat yourself well, no matter what kind of role you have, live in the society and family, you should not give up your pursuit of your appearance and body. Do not have to wait until her husband derailed a "younger version of yourself, you can wake up?
Some women live as if they were alive after 30 years of age, but some women can be girls all their lives, and let men always appreciate and respect her. The reason for this is that, apart from giving up their resolutions, there is also a huge difference in ideas - the former is convinced of the old woman who is divided by the old society; the latter has broken the bonds of age to himself!